First morning in "new" bed, in "new" home. Sadness, but routine as usual. How can everything be so different and look exactly the same?
Mateo and I Skyped with Justin. Good for Mateo, hard for me. Angry eyes at the screen, quietly critical when Justin asked him if he wanted to come back to Connecticut. Well, I attempted to be quiet but I think it really turned into a tense, quiet argument that I'm sure Mateo noticed. More failure at parenting.
He wants me to be the person he tells things to, what she has been to him for the past year. Should I be happy about that? I'm still angry. I told him I was glad for that but I can't respond as he wants until we deal with stuff in therapy. Apparently his response to that was to (maybe) get drunk (?) and ignore my many calls and texts this evening. Trying not to let my anger, jealousy and fear take over and make me imagine the worst. He is an addict, he is an addict, he is an addict...this is not about me, this is about his addiction (my mantra).
Started reading "Carry On, Warrior" by Glennon Doyle Melton. This book may save my marriage, or at least myself. All these messages, stories, moments where I've felt God reaching out to me can't be coincidence, right? He is here with me, in this. How can I not forgive Justin? And yet, even God says that we must come to Him and ask forgiveness, though it is freely offered. I only ask repentance. Therapy, come quickly.